today, he leaves a message on my voice mail saying there was no agreement regarding visitation tomorrow that he would be at the mall at 10am at the food court. i call back and inform him, yes, there was an agreement and it was noon till 6 pm, on the answering machine, of course, and told him i was waiting for a confirmation phone call. he just called me back stating that there was no agreed upon time that him and i were to agree on a time and he is going to be there at 10. i said douglas, i don't agree with 10, i cannot make it there at 10, that was not the agreed upon time and you cannot simply change it cause you wish. he told me he would file an exparte and i said good!!! he told me to call my lawyer i told him i already spoke with him and if he wanted to be in violation, go right ahead, he would find himself in court on tuesday morning. he said he would be there at 10 and that's final. he also said that i would be lucky if he waited five minutes. oh well, he needs to abide by the agreements in court or he can go fuck himself. which he can do anyways. this man is the biggest fucking heartache i will probably ever have in my life. but let me tell you, he will not bring me down or discourage me in anyway. he is being so difficult because the court did not put the exact time for the visitation. he has to find anyway he can to try to be an asshole. let him. i win.
Saturday, October 22, 2005
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Um, so, you can't get out of bed early enough to make it to see your CHIlDREN at 10:00 a.m.?
Brother.
People use all sorts of excuses, including "My Ex is (insert slag of choice here), but the reality is that you are responsible for and the author of your own life and destiny.
Your children must come first, before your addiction, before your fight with your ex, before everything else.
Force yourself. It is worth it.
Personally, I know I have no experience with this sort of thing (and, frankly, hope that I never do...), but I agree with Strongernow when she said that this is your place to vent. I think that you seem to be pulling yourself together now, and your venting through this blog shoud not be material for someone to use to tell you what you're doing wrong. I mean, you didn't post a sign stating that criticism was welcome, right? I'd also like your exhusband to set up a blog to really hear what the other side of a story like this would be like...but somehow he doesn't seem like the type...perhaps not the type to admit any wrongdoings or that their children deserve their REAL mom and not just a stand-in!!
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